Anonymous asked: Hey! This is the second time my bf and i got together.. We've been together (for the 2nd time) for a few months now... I really love him and he says he really likes me too but that he doesn't like the relationship between us because we rarely talk n he is always hanging out with other girls (but they're just friends).. He indirectly said our relationship was boring.. We talked about breaking up but we both knew we would regret it.. (Part 1)

Soo we decided to wait another week to see if the “spark” comes back.. Any advice? Should we try to save the relationship or just give it up? If we should save it how could i get the “spark back? There’s so many problems in our relationship, and we’re still young… xx

answer: relationships always have ups and downs. fights will happen and disagreeing will happen. those are normal. calling it boring is not! even not doing anything but laying down together should be fun. you guys should do new stuff though. i know many relationships where they do the same thing every day and yes it does get old. try going on a picnic or hiking. something that you guys can enjoy together and talk about. new adventures = spark!

today i am making a video on poor self esteem because a few ppl have been asking for it

if you REALLY want me to talk about another topic, let me know. i will be doing it in a few hours.

Anonymous asked: I texted him, asking him if he'd like to hang out, and he replied and said okay, :D Im happy but now im panicking :/

just have fun! see how he acts towards you! see if he if flirty and happy around you and all that stuff! let me know!

Anonymous asked: so im hoping you can help me.. So basically i met one of my sisters co-workers and became friends with him, went to his house, to parties ect. Then we started hanging out alone, he met my parents and all my friends. BUT we have never had anything romantic happen, ive stayed at his place before and that but nothing major. He has talked about other girls to me and how "he wants to find the right girl"... i see him everyday now. so does he feel the same way? or am i just wasting my time?

you never know. i mean, why don’t you hang out with him on a real one on one date. talk about things and open up. see if there is chemistry there. see if he reacts if you flirt with him. i mean, most of the time a guy won’t waste his time on a girl unless he is thinking about being with her but this guy might just like having a friend around. try it out. has he shown you any other signs?

Anonymous asked: I have to play sports tomorrow morning and i have already asked my coach if i can wear a long sleeve plain white shirt underneath my sports shirt and she said it was fine. I need to cover up my scars from cutting, but i didn't tell her that. She was confused as to why i needed to wear another shirt underneath. What do i say when others ask me why i am wearing a long sleeve shirt underneath my sports shirt?

there are many excuses that you can come up with such as being insecure and all that but let me just say, the truth comes out sooner or later. i hope you are not cutting any more. xoxo.

Anonymous asked: If a guy says that he's not gonna see you anymore and that he's not going to treat you special anymore and spoil you by giving in everytime you call him but then still gives in not even a week later, does that mean something?

it probably means that he likes you and it is hard to get over you.

Anonymous asked: This is about my neighbours son. Im seriously going insane, I really do like him a lot, I know that for a fact, but sometimes I think maybe he does like me but I don't know, like I said the signs. I have his number, do you think I should make the first move, and like invite him round or something ? :/

you could try that if you really want to make sure. the thing is, if a guy likes you, they usually will text you or find excuses to see you. if he has your number and has not contacted you, it might mean he is uninterested.

Anonymous asked: my bf and i just fought and hes letting me go to sleep cryng (and hes not going to school tomorrow) and sad bc he has anger issues and doesnt want to say mean things to me or break up with me but its hard bc im sick right now and i mss him and want to talk to him but i cant bc hes mad that i get worried too much and i have a twitter,fb, instagram and he wants me to delete it but i dont want to. i know time will calm him down but i dont even get to see him on the weekends.

i have learned through experience that  when fights occur there are people who want to talk it out and others who want to be left alone. no matter how hard you try to tell the person you want to talk, they won’t. they want space. you have to either accept him the way he is or find someone who is more like you on this subject. he will eventually talk to you. try to hang in there. xoxo.

Anonymous asked: I really like this guy, we've been friends for a while now. Ever since, we talk like 24/7 and the more I talk to him the more I like him. Then, I asked him if he is single and he said yes. I asked him if he still has feelings for his ex and he said no or has a crush on anyone and he said no. But then, when I opened his ex profile, it said that he can't stopped thinking about her. I got really hurt when I saw that cos I thought we've got something but it was all a dream I guess. :(

i’m sorry to hear that :/ i mean, this is a good reason for you to move on. many people stay confused and don’t know whether the guy likes them or not. this makes it very hard for them to move on because they don’t know if they should wait and see what happens or try to forget the guy. this way, you know that you should move on! you will find someone! i promise. xoxo.

Anonymous asked: Hi, I don't know if you have a topic for a video yet, but I think some kind of video regarding self esteem of some sort would be good, if you can. I struggle with self esteem, and I don't need to feel 100% comfortable with every part of my body, but I'm ashamed of everything.

wow ok! that is a great topic<3 thanks love. tomorrow!!